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A person gradually approaches his destiny when: feels a deep meaning in his activities; wants to constantly develop in the chosen direction; feels satisfaction not only from the result, but also from the process itself; sees that his work b…

A person gradually approaches his destiny when:

  • feels a deep meaning in his activities;
  • wants to constantly develop in the chosen direction;
  • feels satisfaction not only from the result, but also from the process itself;
  • sees that his work benefits other people;
  • maintains the desire to continue even after failures.

The difficulties do not disappear.

But an understanding emerges as to why it is worth overcoming them.

What prevents you from finding your purpose?

Finding your way can be complicated:

  • fear of mistakes;
  • the desire to meet other people's expectations;
  • lack of experience;
  • constant comparison of oneself with others;
  • living only for material gain;
  • refusal to try new things;
  • lack of faith in one's own abilities.

Sometimes a person needs to stop looking for a purpose and stop being afraid to take the first step.

How to find purpose?

In the New Psychology of DREVO, the search for purpose begins with self-examination.

  • It is useful to ask questions.
  • What am I interested in studying even without external coercion?
  • Which abilities do I exhibit most easily?
  • What do people thank me for?
  • What problems in the world do I want to solve?
  • What activities bring a feeling of inner fulfillment?
  • If success were guaranteed, what would I dedicate my life to?
  • Answers to these questions rarely appear immediately.
  • They become clearer as experience accumulates.

Purpose and ministry

Purpose does not exist separately from other people.

Even the most personal talents acquire true meaning when they begin to bring benefit.

True purpose always connects the development of the individual with the development of society.

A person reveals himself by helping life around him to reveal itself.

Purpose changes with a person

  • At different periods of life, a person can perform different tasks.
  • Study.
  • Start a family.
  • Develop the profession.
  • To pass on knowledge.
  • Create projects.
  • Help society.
  • The form of purpose may change.

But his inner direction—the desire to realize his best qualities for the benefit of life—remains.

Practice asked for purposes

Each month it is helpful to answer five questions:

  • What brought me the greatest joy from creation?
  • In what activities did I feel most alive?
  • Where were my abilities particularly useful?
  • What do I want to develop in myself further?
  • What's the next step that will bring me closer to a life I'm proud of?

Purpose is revealed through action, not through waiting.

The main principle

  • Purpose is not something a person finds one day.
  • This is what he gradually creates with his life.
  • Every honest act.
  • Every new skill.
  • Every help to another person.
  • Every creative project.
  • They all become part of the journey.

Definition

Finding one's purpose is the process of recognizing and realizing one's abilities, values, and life direction through creative activity that benefits the individual, society, and future generations.

In the New Psychology of DREVO, purpose is viewed as a natural result of harmonious personal development. It is revealed not through waiting for a special sign, but through continuous learning, work, service, creativity, and responsibility for one's contribution to the world.

A tree doesn't ask what it will become. It grows, revealing all that was contained in its seed. So too, a person finds their purpose when, day after day, they uncover their best qualities and transform them into a benefit to life.

Family development

Family Development in the New Psychology of DREVO

In the New Psychology DREVO, the family is considered the first and most important environment for human development.

It is in the family that a child first learns love, trust, cooperation, responsibility and mutual care.

  • But a family exists not only for the sake of raising children.
  • It is a space for joint development of all its members.
  • A strong family helps every person become stronger.
  • And strong personalities make a family stronger.

What is family?

A family is a voluntary union of people united by love, trust, mutual responsibility, and the desire to jointly create conditions for the development, support, and continuation of life.

The main value of a family lies not only in living together.

It consists of joint development.

The foundation of the family

In the New Psychology of DREVO, a strong family is built on five pillars.

  • Love.
  • The desire to care and help each other develop.
  • Trust.
  • Confidence in the honesty and support of loved ones.
  • Respect.
  • Recognition of the dignity of each family member.
  • Responsibility.

Willingness to fulfill one's responsibilities and take care of the well-being of the family.

Cooperation.

The ability to solve problems together and create a common future.

If one of these pillars weakens, it becomes more difficult for the family to remain stable.

Family as a space for development

  • Each family member is both a student and a teacher.
  • Children learn from their parents.
  • Parents learn responsibility.
  • The elderly pass on their experience.
  • Young people bring new ideas.

The family becomes a place where knowledge, traditions and love are passed down between generations.

Family traditions

Traditions strengthen the sense of unity.

These could be:

  • shared dinners;
  • family holidays;
  • trips;
  • reading books;
  • gardening;
  • joint creativity;
  • helping other people.

Regular shared activities create a common family history.

Conflict resolution

  • Conflicts are inevitable in any family.
  • Their presence does not mean the absence of love.
  • The main thing is how the family overcomes them.

In the New Psychology of DREVO, conflict becomes an opportunity to better understand each other.

Important:

  • speak honestly;
  • listen carefully;
  • look for a solution, not someone to blame;
  • respect the dignity of every person.

The victory of one over another rarely strengthens the family.

The real victory is maintaining the relationship and finding a way out together.

Family and children

The main task of parents is not to make the child comfortable.

The main task is to help him become an independent, responsible and kind person.

The best education does not come through words.

It happens through personal example.

Children often imitate their parents' lifestyle rather than their advice.

Family and Personal Development

A good family helps a person:

  • feel safe;
  • to reveal abilities;
  • learn responsibility;
  • to experience difficulties;
  • maintain internal stability;
  • find support.

The family becomes a place where a person can regain strength and re-enter the world.

Family and Society

  • Every family influences society.
  • Strong families build strong communities.
  • Strong communities make stable states.

Therefore, the development of society begins with the development of family culture.

Family development practice

Useful regularly:

  • spend time together without phones;
  • discuss family plans;
  • thank each other;
  • learn new things together;
  • help other people together;
  • create family traditions;
  • talk openly about feelings;
  • spend time together in nature.

A family develops through common activities, not just through living together.

The main principle

Family is not a place where people just live next to each other.

This is a place where people help each other become better.

A true family is measured not by the number of years lived together, but by the amount of love, trust, support and shared creation.

Definition

Family development is a process of strengthening love, trust, responsibility, cooperation, and mutual growth among all its members, creating conditions for the harmonious development of the individual and the transmission of values ​​to future generations.

In the New Psychology of DREVO, the family is viewed as the first school of humanity, where people learn to love, respect, cooperate, and accept responsibility for others. The development of the family is the foundation for the development of society and future civilization.

Just as a tree becomes strong thanks to strong roots, a person becomes strong thanks to a family in which love is transformed into daily actions and life together becomes a shared development.

Community development

Community Development in New Psychology DREVO

In the New Psychology of DREVO, community is viewed as a space for the voluntary association of people bound by common values, goals, and a desire to co-create the future.

If the family is the first environment for personality development, then the community becomes the first school of cooperation.

It is in communities that a person learns to combine his abilities with the abilities of other people.

Community development is the development of a culture of trust, mutual responsibility and collective creativity.

What is a community?

A community is a voluntary association of people based on common values, mutual respect, cooperation and shared responsibility for a common cause.

  • A community is different from a random group of people.
  • It is not only the place or the interest that unites him.
  • It is united by a common goal.

Community Foundation

In New Psychology DREVO, a healthy community is built on several principles.

  • Common values.
  • People understand why they are uniting.
  • Trust.
  • Each participant knows that he is respected and supported.
  • Responsibility.
  • Everyone makes their contribution to the common cause.
  • Freedom of participation.
  • A person remains a free individual.
  • Cooperation is not built on coercion.
  • Creation.
  • The main goal of the community is to create, not to destroy.

Why does a person need a community?

  • One person can do a lot.
  • But together people are able to create what is impossible alone.
  • The community helps:
  • share knowledge;
  • support each other;
  • solve complex problems;
  • implement large projects;
  • to pass on experience;
  • to reveal talents.

Through community, a person becomes part of something greater than himself.

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