How to strengthen your will?
Willpower develops through practice. Useful daily: keep the promises you make to yourself; finish what you started; do difficult but important things; limit impulsive desires; observe the regime; develop discipline; help others, even when i…
Willpower develops through practice.
Useful daily:
- keep the promises you make to yourself;
- finish what you started;
- do difficult but important things;
- limit impulsive desires;
- observe the regime;
- develop discipline;
- help others, even when it takes effort.
Will is like a muscle.
It gets stronger with regular exercise.
Will and freedom
Freedom without will turns into dependence on circumstances.
Will without awareness can turn into stubbornness.
Therefore, true inner freedom is born only when awareness determines the direction, and the will helps to follow this path.
Practice of the Law of Will
- Every evening it is useful to ask yourself the following questions:
- What promises did I keep today?
- Where did I give in to my weaknesses?
- What action required the most willpower?
- What will help me become stronger tomorrow?
- Small honest answers gradually build character.
The main principle
Willpower is not developed in rare moments of heroism.
It develops in everyday life.
Every time a person chooses the right over the easy, the long-term over the immediate, and creation over destruction, he strengthens his inner strength.
Definition
The Law of Will is a fundamental law of the New Psychology DREVO, according to which personality develops through a person's ability to consciously manage their thoughts, emotions, desires, and actions, consistently realizing their values and life goals.
Willpower is the link between consciousness and action. It transforms knowledge into experience, intentions into habits, and inner potential into real change in the individual and the world around us.
Just as a tree's trunk holds it together between its roots and its crown, so does willpower connect a person's inner world with their actions. It is not the strength of desire that determines a person's destiny, but the strength of will to daily put into practice what they believe is right.
Law of Responsibility
The Law of Responsibility in New Psychology DREVO
In the New Psychology DREVO, responsibility is viewed as a person’s ability to recognize themselves as the cause of their decisions, actions and their consequences.
- Responsibility begins the moment a person stops asking:
- "Who is to blame?"
- And he begins to ask:
- "What depends on me?"
It is from this moment that a person ceases to be an object of circumstances and becomes the author of his own life.
What is the Law of Responsibility?
The law of responsibility is a fundamental principle according to which the level of personal development is determined by a person’s willingness to accept responsibility for their thoughts, decisions, actions, the consequences of their actions, and their own development.
Responsibility is an extension of freedom.
The more freedom, the greater the responsibility.
Responsibility begins with oneself
- A man cannot rule the whole world.
- But he is able to control himself.
- With your thoughts.
- In your own words.
- By your actions.
- By your attitude to what is happening.
- This is where real responsibility begins.
Five levels of responsibility
The first level is responsibility for the body
A person cares about his health.
Understands that his lifestyle affects the quality of his future.
The second level is responsibility for the psyche
- A person learns to understand his emotions.
- Doesn't shift them entirely onto other people.
- Looks for ways to constructively cope with stress and worries.
The third level is responsibility for actions
- The man keeps his promises.
- Admits mistakes.
- Corrects the consequences of his actions, if possible.
He does not justify himself by circumstances where he could have acted differently.
The fourth level is responsibility for relationships
- A person understands that trust is built through actions.
- He is responsible for his words.
- Respects the dignity of other people.
- Strives to maintain cooperation and honesty.
The fifth level is responsibility for the future
The highest form of responsibility manifests itself when a person thinks not only about himself.
- He asks questions:
- How will my decisions affect the children?
- To society?
- To nature?
- For future generations?
- This is where personal responsibility becomes responsibility to life.
What hinders responsibility?
Responsibility is weakened by:
- the habit of blaming others;
- search for excuses;
- shifting decisions onto others;
- fear of admitting a mistake;
- passivity;
- the belief that "nothing depends on me."
Such attitudes gradually deprive a person of inner strength.
Responsibility and freedom
Freedom without responsibility turns into arbitrariness.
Responsibility without freedom becomes coercion.
A mature personality combines freedom of choice with a willingness to take responsibility for the consequences of that choice.
Responsibility and creation
- Every creative project begins with responsibility.
- For the quality of your work.
- For the people.
- For resources.
- For promises.
- For long-term consequences.
- The more responsibility a person has, the more trust he inspires.
- And trust becomes the basis for cooperation.
Practice of the Law of Responsibility
- Every evening it is useful to ask yourself the following questions:
- What depended on me today?
- Which decisions were really mine?
- Have I kept my promises?
- If I made a mistake, what can I do to correct it?
- What action did I take today that made me a more mature person?
This practice gradually turns responsibility into a natural character trait.
The main principle
- Responsibility does not limit freedom.
- It makes freedom creative.
- A person becomes stronger not when he gains more power over others.
- He becomes stronger when he learns to manage his own life.
Definition
The Law of Responsibility is a fundamental law of the New Psychology DREVO, according to which personal development is determined by a person's willingness to accept responsibility for their thoughts, decisions, actions, their consequences, and their own development.
Responsibility is the foundation of maturity, trust, and inner freedom. It is what transforms knowledge into action, freedom into creativity, and personal life into a source of benefit for society and future generations.
Responsibility is the moment when a person stops expecting the world to change on its own and begins to ask, "What depends on me today?" It is with this question that true personal growth begins.
The Law of Harmony
The Law of Harmony in New Psychology DREVO
In the New Psychology of DREVO, harmony is not seen as the absence of difficulties or a constant feeling of peace.
Harmony is a state of coordinated development of all aspects of the personality and its interaction with the surrounding world.
A person becomes harmonious not when his life becomes ideal.
He becomes harmonious when his body, psyche, consciousness, will, soul, spirit, relationships and lifestyle begin to support each other.
Harmony is balance in movement.
What is the Law of Harmony?
The law of harmony is a fundamental principle according to which the sustainable development of the individual, society and nature is possible only with the coordinated interaction of all elements of the system.
If one part develops at the expense of another, over time the stability of the entire system is disrupted.
Harmony begins within
- Inner harmony arises when a person lives in accordance with his values.
- He is not torn between what he thinks, says and does.
- His thoughts.
- His words.
- His actions.
- His goals in life.
- They do not contradict each other.
It is precisely internal harmony that becomes the source of psychological stability.
Harmony of the ten levels of man
The law of harmony manifests itself in the coordinated development of all levels of personality.
- Bodygives energy.
- Subconsciousforms useful habits.
- Psychehelps to understand and regulate emotions.
- Consciousnessallows us to understand the world.
- Will turns decisions into actions.
- Soulreveals love, conscience and beauty.
- Spiritsets the direction of life.
- Valuesdetermine life guidelines.
- Social connectionscreate a space of trust and cooperation.
Interaction with naturereminds a person that he is part of a single life.
Harmony arises when none of these levels develops at the expense of the destruction of the others.
Harmony in relationships
A person cannot be completely happy alone.
Harmonious relationships are built on:
- respect;→
- trust;→
- freedom;→
- responsibility;→
- mutual support;
- honesty.
Harmony does not mean the absence of conflict.
It means the ability to resolve them without destroying relationships.
Harmony with nature
Man is a part of nature.
Therefore, environmental destruction inevitably affects the quality of human life.
Caring for nature becomes caring for man himself.
Harmony with nature does not mean rejecting the development of technology.
It is a search for a development that preserves life.
Harmony and development
- Harmony does not mean stopping.
- All living things develop.
- It's changing.
- Adapts.
True harmony lies in the ability to maintain inner balance during times of change.
Like a tree that grows every year, remaining the same.
What destroys harmony?
The harmony is gradually being disturbed:
- extremes;
- constant internal conflict;
- life contrary to one's values;
- chronic stress;
- destructive addictions;
- neglect of health;
- isolation from people;
- loss of meaning in life.
Harmony is gradually lost.
And it is also being restored gradually.
Practice of the Law of Harmony
- Every day it is useful to ask yourself:
- Did I take care of my body today?
- Did you maintain inner peace?
- Were my actions consistent with my values?
- Did I pay attention to my loved ones?
- Have you created anything useful today?
- Did you spend time in nature?
- Was today a harmonious day?
- These questions help to gradually build a holistic life.
The main principle
Harmony does not mean equal development of all aspects of life.
It means their consistency.
When one part of the personality grows, helping others grow, a person becomes stronger, happier and freer.
Definition
The Law of Harmony is a fundamental law of the New Psychology DREVO, according to which sustainable personal development is achieved through the coordinated development of the body, psyche, consciousness, will, soul, spirit, values, relationships, and interaction with nature.
Harmony is not an end goal, but a way of life. It is born when a person's inner world, actions, and relationships with the outside world cease to contradict each other and begin to function as a unified system.
Like a tree, in which the roots, trunk, branches, leaves and fruits do not exist separately, but support each other, a person becomes truly harmonious when all aspects of his personality are united into a single direction of life.
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