The law of continuous development
You cannot develop one level of personality while completely ignoring the others. A weak body limits the psyche. The unconscious psyche limits freedom of choice. Loss of values destroys relationships. Broken relationships weaken society. …
You cannot develop one level of personality while completely ignoring the others.
- A weak body limits the psyche.
- The unconscious psyche limits freedom of choice.
- Loss of values destroys relationships.
- Broken relationships weaken society.
- A broken society degrades the environment.
- Therefore, development must always be holistic.
The main principle of DREVO
Every day, a person can do at least one thing that will strengthen their body, deepen their understanding of themselves, improve their relationships with people, or benefit the world around them.
It is from such small daily actions that a mature personality gradually grows, just as a great tree grows from a small seed.
New Psychology Practices DREVO
The law of small steps
Personality develops not through rare heroic deeds, but through small daily actions.
- Every day strengthens habits.
- Each week shapes a lifestyle.
- Every year changes personality.
Daily practices
Body
- good sleep;
- movement for at least 30-60 minutes;
- breathing exercises;
- quality nutrition;
- water;
- staying outdoors;
- short warm-up every hour if you have a sedentary job.
Question of the day:
What strengthened my body today?
Subconscious
- observation of automatic reactions;
- forming one useful habit;
- conscious breathing during stress;
- An evening recording of the emotional events of the day.
Question of the day:
Which of my habits helped me today and which ones hindered me?
Psyche
- reading;
- training;
- solving intellectual problems;
- creative activity;→
- development of emotional literacy.
Question of the day:
What new things did I understand today?
Consciousness
- 10-20 minutes of silence, meditation or focused reflection;
- analysis of your decisions;
- planning the next day.
Question of the day:
What decisions today were truly mine?
Superconsciousness
- free creativity;
- a walk alone;
- recording new ideas;
- contemplation of nature;
- search for non-standard solutions.
Question of the day:
What new thought came to me today?
Soul
- Gratitude;→
- a good deed;
- sincere conversation;
- music;
- art;
- prayer or contemplation - for those who adhere to the corresponding tradition.
Question of the day:
What made me more alive today?
Spirit
- keeping one's word to oneself;
- overcoming a minor difficulty;
- discipline;→
- action for a long-term goal.
Question of the day:
Where did I show strength of character today?
Values
- one action according to one's beliefs;
- honesty;
- respect for people.
Question of the day:
Was my life consistent with my values today?
Social connections
- help one person;
- listen without judgment;
- express gratitude;
- support a loved one.
Question of the day:
Who is better off today thanks to me?
Environment
- order at home and at work;
- caring for nature;
- conscious use of technology;
- time without screen.
Question of the day:
What kind of world did I leave behind today?
Weekly practices
Every week a person conducts a "tree audit".
Roots
- How does the body feel?
- Do you have the strength?
- What needs to be restored?
Trunk
- What emotions were predominant?
- What habits have developed?
- What has changed?
Crown
What new ideas emerged?
What did you manage to create?
Fruit
What useful things have I done for others?
What has changed around me?
Question of the week
Have I become stronger, wiser and kinder compared to last week?
Monthly practices
Once a month, a deep self-assessment is carried out.
- health;→
- relationship;→
- training;
- creativity;
- finance;→
- spiritual development;
- contribution to society;
- interaction with nature.→
New goals are being set for the next month.
Annual practices
- Every year a person takes stock of his development.
- Not by the amount of money earned.
- Not by the number of things.
- And then,
- what kind of person he became.
Questions of the Year
- What new things have I learned?
- What did you learn?
- Who did you help?
- What did you create?
- Which of my values have become stronger?
- What fears did you manage to overcome?
- How has my attitude towards people changed?
- What was made better by my presence?
- Which projects will outlive me?
Day of Silence
Once a year, a person devotes one day to a complete re-evaluation of his life.
- Without a phone.
- No rush.
- In nature or in silence.
- He reflects:
- Who am I now?
- Where am I going?
- What are my true values?
- What needs to be changed?
- After this, a new annual development plan is formed.
The main law of development
- Every day strengthens the roots.
- Each week forms the trunk.
- Creates new branches every month.
- Every year bears fruit.
- This is how a tree grows.
- This is how a person develops.
The main goal of the New Psychology DREVO is not to become a perfect person, but to become a little more conscious, healthy, free, responsible, and capable of contributing to the world every day.
What is love?
Love in the New Psychology of DREVO
In the New Psychology of DREVO, love is viewed as a natural state of a mature personality, aimed at preserving, developing and revealing life.
- Love is not just a feeling.
- Not just emotion.
- Not just biological attraction.
Love is an attitude towards life that is expressed through care, respect, responsibility and the desire to develop another person, oneself and the world around us.
What is love?
Love is the desire to preserve, develop and reveal life.
A person can love:
- another person;
- child;
- family;→
- friends;
- your own business;
- nature;→
- knowledge;→
- art;
- Homeland;
- humanity.→
In all cases, love is manifested in the same way.
It promotes development, not destruction.
Love and development
- Love is always aimed at growth.
- A loving parent helps a child become independent.
- A loving teacher helps a student to discover his abilities.
- A loving doctor strives to restore health.
- A loving person does not seek to possess another person.
- He strives to help him become more free, mature and happier.
- That's why love doesn't hold back.
- Love helps you grow.
Love and freedom
True love is impossible without freedom.
Where there is violence, constant control, or the desire to completely subjugate another to one's will, love gradually gives way to dependence or fear.
Love respects another person's right to be themselves.
It does not abolish responsibility and mutual obligations, but it excludes the treatment of a person as property.
Love and responsibility
- Love is not limited to feelings.
- It manifests itself through actions.
- Care.
- Loyalty.
- Honesty.
- Support.
- The ability to be there in difficult times.
- Responsibility makes love sustainable.
Love and respect
Love begins with recognizing the worth of another person.
She doesn't demand perfection.
She accepts a person as an individual, recognizing his right to development, mistakes and change.
Respect creates a space in which love can exist for a long time.
Love and Creation
Love always creates.
She creates:
- family;→
- trust;→
- friendship;
- culture;→
- knowledge;→
- cooperation;→
- safety;
- future.→
Where love disappears, it becomes more difficult for a person to create together with others.
Love for oneself
- Loving yourself does not mean being selfish.
- It means respect for one's own life, health, dignity and development.
- A person who takes care of himself is more able to take care of others.
- Love for oneself and love for others are not opposed.
- They support each other.
Love and Humanity
The highest form of love becomes the desire to preserve and develop life in all its manifestations.
Such love is shown through:
- raising children;
- helping people;
- scientific discoveries;
- protection of nature;
- development of culture;→
- creation of a just society;
- service to future generations.
Love becomes the driving force of creative civilization.
The main principle
Love cannot be measured in words.
It is measured by how much more life, freedom, trust, development and creation there is after meeting a person.
True love does not make a person weaker.
She helps him bring out the best in him.
Definition
Love is a conscious desire to preserve, develop and reveal life, manifested through respect, care, responsibility, freedom and creative actions.
In the New Psychology of DREVO, love is viewed as one of the highest forms of personal maturity. It unites the body, psyche, consciousness, will, soul, and spirit into a single direction—the development of life.
Love is the energy of creation that transforms existence into development, relationships into cooperation, and a person into a source of life for others.
Note.The last phrase uses the word "energy" in a philosophical, not physical, sense. Within DREVO, love is understood as a driving force of personality, not as a measurable form of physical energy.
Revealing the Soul
What does it mean to open your soul?
In the New Psychology of DREVO, soul revelation is the process of gradually revealing a person's inner essence through their thoughts, feelings, actions, creativity, and relationships with the world.
The soul cannot be artificially created or changed. It is not acquired from without. It is revealed when a person begins to live in harmony with their inner nature.
Opening up the soul is not about finding a new self, but about returning to your true self.
What prevents the soul from opening up?
The soul does not disappear, but its manifestation can be limited by various factors:
- constant fear;
- living contrary to one's own values;
- self-deception;
- chronic stress;
- dependencies;
- internal conflicts;
- destructive relationships;
- lack of meaning;→
- loss of connection with nature, creativity and people.
When a person lives solely under the influence of external expectations or automatic reactions, his inner potential remains untapped.
Signs of soul opening
The opening of the soul is manifested not by unusual experiences, but by a change in the person himself.
He becomes:
- more sincere;
- more free internally;
- more responsible;
- more capable of love;
- more creative;
- more resilient in the face of difficulties;
- more attentive to other people;
- more capable of creating than destroying.
- A person stops constantly asking:
- "What will the world give me?"
- And more and more often he asks the question:
- "What value can I bring to the world?"
Paths to Soul Discovery
The revelation of the soul occurs through life.
Through:
- Love;→
- creativity;
- service to people;
- knowledge;→
- honesty with yourself;
- acceptance of responsibility;
- overcoming difficulties;→
- communication;
- contemplation of nature;
- creating a family and raising children;
- participation in the life of society;
- preservation of culture;
- work filled with meaning.
Each of these paths helps a person express his values in specific actions.
The role of consciousness and will
- Consciousness helps to hear the inner voice.
- Will helps to bring it to life.
- Without consciousness, a person may not notice his true aspirations.
- Without will, he may never realize them.
Therefore, opening the soul requires not only sensitivity, but also daily inner work.
The main principle
The soul is not revealed when a person strives to appear to be someone else.
- It is revealed when his thoughts, words and actions become one.
- Authenticity gives birth to inner freedom.
- Inner freedom gives birth to creativity.
- Creativity gives birth to creation.
- And creation becomes a natural expression of an open soul.
An open soul is not a special state available to a select few. It is a way of life in which a person increasingly realizes their best qualities, lives in harmony with their values, and benefits others and the world.
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